Despite the fact there is nothing fundamentally “wrong” with having sex, few of us probably enjoy being caught in the act! Whether this is a basic human fear, a level of prudishness or just embarrassment, the fact is most of us would like our private times to stay exactly that.
In this post, I shall reminisce on a few times when nearly been caught out……….as well as those occasions when there have suddenly been unwelcome eyes! Continue reading “Caught in the act!”
I like nothing more than an easy task; the path of least resistance is by far the easiest route to follow, isn’t it? Yet I also relish a challenge, so how do I these two marry tasks in one post?
That is simple, write an article on that age-old chestnut: what women want! Continue reading “What women want”
Why is it an unwritten law, one’s mobile will always ring at the most inappropriate moment?
Many guys will happily berate a lady for either not turning off her phone or, even worse, for answering calls during a meeting, i.e. their time. However, how many gents actually turn off their own phone or, even worse, answer calls during a meeting?
Clearly I have no idea what other gents do, but I do know what I have done. Normally, and I hasten to add, normally, I will turn off my work and private phones before I go into a meeting. However, there have been times when I have forgotten.
Is it not Murphy’s Law which states the opposite from what you want will always happen?
One of the main challenges of meetings, particularly with seeing someone regularly, is managing emotions (see my post Managing emotions) and ensuring one keeps an eye on what is real and what is only perceived.
The question I often ponder is how soon do you really know someone properly?
Sexual needs and desires are now widely recognised in psychology as being the second most important human need after survival.
As such, the suppressing or failing to fulfill sexual desires and needs is widely acknowledged in resulting in a range of physical and mental issues, as well as crime.
If this is the wisdom of those who understand the human mind best, it does beg the question, how many of us really lead a fulfilled sexual life and how many of us do not? And what are the potential consequences of failing to follow one’s sexual dreams? Continue reading “Sexuality”
When one sees the same lady regularly, often over a long period, should this make a difference to how one is regarded? Or should all clients be treated the same, regardless of how often they have visited the lady? Continue reading “A question of economics?”
“Why can’t everyone else be like us?”. This is a question I am sure many of us will have posed at some point or other.
During a recent visit to a lady I have known for a while, she was telling me how let down she felt by the recent behaviour of a few clients.
This was not her being indiscreet, as I have no idea about whom she was talking and she was merely confiding in me. The reason she was doing so is because we have always enjoyed a privileged relationship where we share a mutual and absolute respect and trust of one and another and we often confide in one and another about good or bad experiences and life in general. Continue reading “Great expectations”
Every single one of us will have those days when we marvel at something, as well as days when we wonder what the hell just happened!
There has been a pattern to my “Days of Wonder” over the past year or more. The scenario is this: I have a free afternoon or evening, funds in the Punting budget and a burning desire to meet some hot lady for a session of debauched fun. Continue reading “Days of wonder”
When meeting with a Companion, I imagine convenience would be one of the key factors. After all, who would start a search with the furthest away ladies as a main criterion?
Me! Yes, although I do not do it deliberately, I seem to see only people afar!
Initially, it was a conscious decision to escape my part of the “London village”, as that is what London seems like at times, such is my propensity to bump into people I know in the strangest of places, sometimes whilst on “active service”!
One thing I have learned over my years as a punter, most ladies work in a similar way but everyone has their own preferred methods, such as time and method of reconfirming and arrival arrangements.
There are so many similarities yet so many differences!
I believe it is important for us gents to respect each lady’s personal preferences and to fit into her method, rather than expecting every lady to know and adopt our preferred way of doing things. Continue reading “Vive la difference!”
