Sex on the phone?

Why is it an unwritten law, one’s mobile will always ring at the most inappropriate moment?

Many guys will happily berate a lady for either not turning off her phone or, even worse, for answering calls during a meeting, i.e. their time. However, how many gents actually turn off their own phone or, even worse, answer calls during a meeting?

Clearly I have no idea what other gents do, but I do know what I have done. Normally, and I hasten to add, normally, I will turn off my work and private phones before I go into a meeting. However, there have been times when I have forgotten.

Is it not Murphy’s Law which states the opposite from what you want will always happen?

Continue reading “Sex on the phone?”

Great expectations

“Why can’t everyone else be like us?”. This is a question I am sure many of us will have posed at some point or other.

During a recent visit to a lady I have known for a while, she was telling me how let down she felt by the recent behaviour of a few clients.

This was not her being indiscreet, as I have no idea about whom she was talking and she was merely confiding in me. The reason she was doing so is because we have always enjoyed a privileged relationship where we share a mutual and absolute respect and trust of one and another and we often confide in one and another about good or bad experiences and life in general. Continue reading “Great expectations”

Vive la difference!

One thing I have learned over my years as a punter, most ladies work in a similar way but everyone has their own preferred methods, such as time and method of reconfirming and arrival arrangements.

There are so many similarities yet so many differences!

I believe it is important for us gents to respect each lady’s personal preferences and to fit into her method, rather than expecting every lady to know and adopt our preferred way of doing things. Continue reading “Vive la difference!”

Discretion and valour

A while back, when I was working away, a junior colleague suggested we should go together to visit an Escort when the project was over. It was a suggestion which came right out of the blue, least of all as I always keep my private life exactly that and he would have had absolutely no idea as to my extra curricula activities! He was merely making the suggestion to try to make me more interesting or to embarrass me!

Was it a good idea of his? Was I tempted? No! I value my privacy and prefer to keep my activities to myself. Least of all, as he would then always have had a hold over me and I think it would have been unprofessional of me if I had put myself in this position. Indeed, if it were ever to have come out, would it have compromised my job? Rightly or wrongly, I decided (instantly) it was not worth it! Continue reading “Discretion and valour”

Emotional disconnect

In my post last year called “Managing emotions” , I stated how important it is for both clients and Escorts to be able to understand the true nature of a meeting and the real level of the relationship which eschews.

Discretion is everything and maintaining a certain degree of separation is important. Whilst I acknowledge and fully embrace this, I believe some ladies do need to exercise the other side of their discretion and to be prepared to engage more warmly with those clients who are valued and trusted. Continue reading “Emotional disconnect”