Despite the fact there is nothing fundamentally “wrong” with having sex, few of us probably enjoy being caught in the act! Whether this is a basic human fear, a level of prudishness or just embarrassment, the fact is most of us would like our private times to stay exactly that. In this post, I shall …
Category Archives: Capital Punter
Sex on the phone?
Why is it an unwritten law, one’s mobile will always ring at the most inappropriate moment? Many guys will happily berate a lady for either not turning off her phone or, even worse, for answering calls during a meeting, i.e. their time. However, how many gents actually turn off their own phone or, even worse, …
Infatuation
One of the main challenges of meetings, particularly with seeing someone regularly, is managing emotions (see my post Managing emotions) and ensuring one keeps an eye on what is real and what is only perceived. The question I often ponder is how soon do you really know someone properly?
Sexuality
Sexual needs and desires are now widely recognised in psychology as being the second most important human need after survival. As such, the suppressing or failing to fulfill sexual desires and needs is widely acknowledged in resulting in a range of physical and mental issues, as well as crime. If this is the wisdom of …
A question of economics?
When one sees the same lady regularly, often over a long period, should this make a difference to how one is regarded? Or should all clients be treated the same, regardless of how often they have visited the lady?
Great expectations
“Why can’t everyone else be like us?”. This is a question I am sure many of us will have posed at some point or other. During a recent visit to a lady I have known for a while, she was telling me how let down she felt by the recent behaviour of a few clients. …
Days of wonder
Every single one of us will have those days when we marvel at something, as well as days when we wonder what the hell just happened! There has been a pattern to my “Days of Wonder” over the past year or more. The scenario is this: I have a free afternoon or evening, funds in …
Vive la difference!
One thing I have learned over my years as a punter, most ladies work in a similar way but everyone has their own preferred methods, such as time and method of reconfirming and arrival arrangements. There are so many similarities yet so many differences! I believe it is important for us gents to respect each …
Canine petit dejeuner
Why do women wear make up? This is part rhetorical and part enquiring. Of course, I imagine there are many reasons why a lady will wear make up, but in essence, the second part of my question is “do they do it for themselves or for others?”.
Discretion and valour
A while back, when I was working away, a junior colleague suggested we should go together to visit an Escort when the project was over. It was a suggestion which came right out of the blue, least of all as I always keep my private life exactly that and he would have had absolutely no …